Based on your answers
Here are three tools for you
Adjacent Possible
Adjacent possibles are the infinite ways in which the future can be reinvented, hovering at the edge of our awareness, waiting to be discovered.
What hunch have you been quietly dismissing that might actually be pointing toward something real?
As If
Living as if something was already true is a technique philosophers and political activists use to invoke action and change. Living as if possibilities exist can increase the chances that they will come to be and helps us endure while we wait for them.
How would you act today if the thing you're hoping for was already on its way?
Memento Mori
From the Latin for "Remember, you must die," this practice is an ancient form of meditation on the certainty that your time is limited, which helps infuse the days you do have with more vibrant living and joy.
If your time is limited, is what you're worrying about really worth the worry?